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22-05-2019, 10:10 AM
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Reason, Season, or Lifetime

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you figure out which one it is,
you will know what to do for each person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty;
to provide you with guidance and support;
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON,
because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it. It is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons;
things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person,
and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

— Unknown
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22-05-2019, 11:01 PM
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How do you feel now you've had a day to consider it all Queenie?
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25-05-2019, 11:08 PM
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Re: What would you do in this situation

Originally Posted by carol ->
How do you feel now you've had a day to consider it all Queenie?
Bump up.
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26-05-2019, 05:06 AM
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Queenie is still floating on her Hugh Jackman fluffy cloud, Carol. It could be days before she is down to earth again!
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26-05-2019, 07:50 AM
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.. Yes I think you're right ST.

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26-05-2019, 08:13 AM
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Re: What would you do in this situation

Haha yeah i.m still on that cloud.

I.ve decided I don't want to be friends with someone who thinks i.m pathetic. I obviously can't trust her to be loyal to me and loyalty in a friendship means a lot to me.

She did text and apologize but I reckon she's only sorry about being caught.

I let it go the first time tried to laugh it off but second time isn't funny, I won't allow it to happen a third time.

She hurt me, especially bringing my beloved dead sister into it.

She's lost a good friend and she knows it, hopefully she will learn from it.

To be honest i.m still in shock but I won't change my mind now, nothing would ever be the same.

Thanks for thinking of me xx
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26-05-2019, 08:16 AM
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Good for you Queenie. I'm glad you did that.
She doesn't deserve you.x
 
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