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17-11-2018, 05:31 PM
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Re: What Would You Do If You saw Your Neighbour With Someone Who Wasn’t His Wife?

Nothing at all, I would have no idea how they were related. Having had a nosy neighbour tell me my husband was seeing someone daily for weeks only to discover he was parking up his milk float to use the loos next to the house where the woman lived and he'd never met her, I tend to think keep ones nose out is best policy.
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17-11-2018, 05:34 PM
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Re: What Would You Do If You saw Your Neighbour With Someone Who Wasn’t His Wife?

Originally Posted by Uncle Joe ->
None of my business, could be the man's sister or cousin.
My thoughts too !
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17-11-2018, 05:37 PM
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Re: What Would You Do If You saw Your Neighbour With Someone Who Wasn’t His Wife?

Originally Posted by Aerolor ->
None of my business and I would do nothing. If he saw me I would say hello.
Same here.
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17-11-2018, 05:39 PM
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17-11-2018, 05:41 PM
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Re: What Would You Do If You saw Your Neighbour With Someone Who Wasn’t His Wife?

(Probably) Acknowledge him if he acknowledged me and mind my own business.
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17-11-2018, 05:44 PM
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There is nothing that needs to be done. You would have no idea who the other person was or their relationships. When I was younger I had drinks with people who were just friends. Some were related to business. I was married. My husband at the time knew about it. You could be stirring up a problem where one did not exist before. If he's having an affair, he and his wife have to work it out. To do something about it is to judge when you know nothing about the situation. If you are a Christian, the Bible says, "Judge not lest you be judged. If you are not then it's just common sense to let it go. As they say, "The truth will out."
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In all seriousness, I would ignore it and mind my own business and tbh, I would ignore it if it even if it was my Dad.
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17-11-2018, 05:45 PM
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My jaw would probably drop in shock as I've known Him and His Wife for around 30 years.....I also know His Sisters & Sister in law..but once I'd recovered I'd certainly give Him a narrow eyed look over the top of My specs
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17-11-2018, 06:07 PM
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My brother's wife is 11 years older than him and now pretty well crippled and can't go out. He likes to do things where he would like someone to accompany him, so I usually go.

There have been people who actually called my SIL and told her that Paul was out with another woman. My SIL is very out spoken, and she told them, I was his sister, but at the same time, told them to mind their own affairs.
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17-11-2018, 06:17 PM
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I would never dream of saying anything not my business.
 
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