Re: How far would you go ?
I didn't post in this thread as I'm married but there could come the day when Mrs. F is not around anymore.
It's the worst thought imaginable and I won't go there as I hate thinking those thoughts but I sometimes do imagine what I would do in her absence if she went first.
It would take me a long time to get over it certainly. I like my own space but not to the extent where I would want to live alone all the time. I need friends around me. A lonely life would be too much to bear.
Maybe I would eventually start to go to singles meeting places. I know I definitely would never join a dating agency. I wouldn't trust them. I like to meet people face to face and make real judgements, which I'm usually good at doing with people I haven't met before.
I'm actually a very deep and complex person so it would probably take me some time to trust anyone explicitly enough to share a house with.
I hope the time never comes when I need to do this.