Re: What are they saying ?
Originally Posted by
Artangel
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I think it’s wrong to judge people by what they wear. I usually home in on the person. I don’t care what they are wearing, it’s irrelevant.
It’s where their heart is that matters and if they have a nice smile.
To judge someone by their clothes is shallow (in my opinion).
This thread is supposed to be about what a person is trying to project, not what others think of them. However, in the REAL world we are judged not only by the clothes we wear , but also by our personal grooming habits.
Moreover, I can say without any doubt that I, and everyone else, am/are judged by how we dress. There can be no doubt that we are treated VERY, VERY, differently by various businesses depending upon what we wear.
Example: If I walked into Harrods or Selfridges, wearing a neat, clean, 3-piece suit with well polished shoes, I'd be treated with respect. If, however, I wore jeans and a white T-shirt, I doubt that any clerk would offer to help me.
Additionally, based on a lifetime of experience, I can definitely state that women treat me entirely differently based on what I wear. A nice up to date suit gains me a big smile from pretty women. I become invisible to women if I wear worn jeans and a low priced shirt.
Moreover, a man can not even get in the door of a high-end restaurant if he is not wearing a suit and tie. The same is true for women. She is wearing cut-off jeans and flip-flops she is not allowed inside.