Re: JEALOUSY within the family
Re: JEALOUSY within the family
You can tell a child what is acceptable or not acceptable and you can tell that child why but, the child doesn't always accept it, especially when they get with their friends, they don't want to feel left out and will quite often go along with whatever their friends want. I too brought up my son alone for some years, yes there were times we had problems, there were times we clashed, but he still grew up to be a decent and independent young man. When I made rules for him I meant them, there was always a reason, which he knew, if he broke those rules then he got well and truly grounded. He was brought up to be polite and respectful and at home or when out with him he always was and people would comment on how polite he was. However he was certainly no angel and at times needed a very firm hand.Re: JEALOUSY within the family
Re: JEALOUSY within the family
Well! I am pleasantly overwhelmed with the Forum response! I thank all of you.Re: JEALOUSY within the family
BOWIE EYES.Re: JEALOUSY within the family
It is just a thought here, but you could try the star chart method. Perhaps starting weekly and working your way up. The child gets a star on his chart for each day he behaves, or does as asked, at the end of the week he gets a reward. If it works you can lengthen the time with the offer of a better reward, perhaps somewhere he wants to go etc.Re: JEALOUSY within the family
I understand completely where you are coming from Advantage. I know finding reliable straightforward help from 'social service' type agencies is a mine field. I was really thinking. the of someone to talk to you and your wife before talking to your boy.
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