10-04-2021, 06:33 AM
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Valid Points.
HiOne of the great things about this Forum is that people can make valid points without being nasty or personal and you get good advice.
Some I take, other perfectly valid points I do not.
One today was about me driving again because I am legally allowed to do so.
No offence taken at all, a very good post.
I also had a very good and very relevant post by one of the Mods.
In an ideal world I would not get annoyed by what my next door neighbour is up to.
No support from the Police or the Council so we are where we are.
I am not having him dealing from my driveway, that stresses me out and stress is something I do not need at the moment.
I am not having him making life a misery for me or others.
He is not going to be dealing drugs from my property or abusing his woman in earshot.
That is not me and I have to react.
That is my choice and the way I must go to protect my own health.
I know some think this wrong, but such is life.
I will not see women or children being abused or sold drugs so they become dependant on them.
I can cope with the criticism, but I will never change.
I will always challenge these pillocks. I will never back down
10-04-2021, 09:08 AM
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Re: Valid Points.
Swimmy, everyone here cares about you and your health and does not want to see you make yourself ill over this - much less get into trouble. I understand your frustration, but would prefer if you continued down the route of involving the police to get something done, rather than yourself.
10-04-2021, 09:18 AM
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Re: Valid Points.
Originally Posted by summer
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I wish you hadn't moved there Spitty I really do. Maybe when you feel a bit stronger would you consider moving?...its not an ideal place for you.
10-04-2021, 09:51 AM
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Re: Valid Points.
Originally Posted by swimfeeders
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– Snip –No support from the Police or the Council so we are where we are.
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Originally Posted by Pixie Knuckles
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Swimmy, everyone here cares about you and your health and does not want to see you make yourself ill over this - much less get into trouble. I understand your frustration, but would prefer if you continued down the route of involving the police to get something done, rather than yourself.
That I believe is what is often happening in this country now, police are finding they are unable to properly resolve this type of problem, due to staffing shortages. The person who wants them to do something to stop what is happening is then left without any resolution or justice, just as swimfeeders has made obvious in the past. This is totally wrong and should not be happening but it is and more often I believe, as some parts of society descend into more antisocial behaviour and all too often the violence that goes with that.
10-04-2021, 10:15 AM
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Re: Valid Points.
HiI moved here for my son, to get him a house he could reach everything within walking distance.
No great shakes, the house in Prees was far too big for me.
The problem is that that whilst it was a nice house, plenty big enough for me and him, times have changed.
The problem is quite simply a change of neighbours, from nice on both sides, to a complete disaster on one side.
Absolutely no help from the Police or the Council.
He is a nasty arrogant git, a very scary man with no regard for the law at all.
I am not moving, I will not be dictated to by him or others of his ilk.
He will be the one moving, not me.
10-04-2021, 11:30 AM
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Re: Valid Points.
Originally Posted by swimfeeders
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HiI moved here for my son, to get him a house he could reach everything within walking distance.
No great shakes, the house in Prees was far too big for me.
The problem is that that whilst it was a nice house, plenty big enough for me and him, times have changed.
The problem is quite simply a change of neighbours, from nice on both sides, to a complete disaster on one side.
Absolutely no help from the Police or the Council.
He is a nasty arrogant git, a very scary man with no regard for the law at all.
I am not moving, I will not be dictated to by him or others of his ilk.
He will be the one moving, not me.
10-04-2021, 12:09 PM
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Re: Valid Points.
Originally Posted by swimfeeders
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HiI moved here for my son, to get him a house he could reach everything within walking distance.
No great shakes, the house in Prees was far too big for me.
The problem is that that whilst it was a nice house, plenty big enough for me and him, times have changed.
The problem is quite simply a change of neighbours, from nice on both sides, to a complete disaster on one side.
Absolutely no help from the Police or the Council.
He is a nasty arrogant git, a very scary man with no regard for the law at all.
I am not moving, I will not be dictated to by him or others of his ilk.
He will be the one moving, not me.
If as you say, you only bought that house for Guy, what does he want? Does he even want to live there now? You never mention him anymore.
This has been playing on your mind for such a long time now, and I remember you once posted it was YOU who got warned off by the police last time - not the neighbour. Maybe you ought to learn from that?
Where I live, my neighbour cannot even get onto my driveway as there is a dividing fence. Can't you just have a fence put up?
He's only doing it to wind you up and it works beautifully!
Is all this daily hassle really worth it? Wouldn't it be better to just cut your losses and get out of there to somewhere more peaceful, for Guy's sake?
The way I see it, you've got four choices:-
1. Hit the neighbour and get yourself arrested.
2. Ignore what he's doing - it's his life.
3. Get a dividing fence erected.
4. Move out.
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