29-02-2016, 04:43 PM
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bye bye -come back soon !
dont you just love the peace now -the kids have gone -married moved on etc .....i remember when they left 'i was thinking i must do this or that -and why? just looking to fill the gap i suppose ' both mine left early had their places -and come back one by one ' arrrgh all that washing feeding -when it was so easy , but both married now 'i don't miss them now in that way #love the non worrying where they could be 'and lock up properly ...peace is bliss ' and now they will have it to come one day .....
29-02-2016, 04:52 PM
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One of mine never left, still here at 49. To be fair he probably couldn't cope with living on his own, he was classed as educationally sub normal at 6 years old. He has improved a lot over the years, passed a motorcycle & car driving test, but is still very young, works as a cleaner for a very low wage, is useless at finacial matters & certainly doesn't earn enough to rent a flat or home. He is also diabetic, but manages that ok.
29-02-2016, 04:55 PM
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Our daughters, now in their 40s, left home the day they started university. Obviously they would pop in and say, 'Hi' during the holidays, but more often than not they were off on trips with friends etc. They found jobs on leaving uni, all some distance away from where we lived, so we only saw them occasionally. The youngest girl's first job was at Granada Studios, which was quite interesting, she certainly had some tales to tell about the actors and actresses she met!
Our youngest adopted son, who has Down's Syndrome, moved out when he was 25, into a super care home where he is very happy.
29-02-2016, 04:56 PM
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Re: bye bye -come back soon !
Originally Posted by Tiffany
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One of mine never left, still here at 49. To be fair he probably couldn't cope with living on his own, he was classed as educationally sub normal at 6 years old. He has improved a lot over the years, passed a motorcycle & car driving test, but is still very young, works as a cleaner for a very low wage, is useless at finacial matters & certainly doesn't earn enough to rent a flat or home. He is also diabetic, but manages that ok.
My younger son still lives at home too and only when hes ready (if ever) will he leave home ....its extremely difficult to find a place to afford to rent.
29-02-2016, 04:59 PM
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Originally Posted by Aysa
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Sorry to hear about your son Tiff ..but really pleased that he is getting along well though.....bit similar with my oldest son here ,mine has aspergers syndrome but very mildly and he also has shizophrenia so doesnt work ,he wont be capable of living alone but hes a very happy lad and helps out with everything around the house and garden My younger son still lives at home too and only when hes ready (if ever) will he leave home ....its extremely difficult to find a place to afford to rent.
Must say first day back at school was peaceful.
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