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My daughter split up from her boyfriend of three years. She cannot afford to get her own home again and is sofa surfing, sometimes stays with her boyfriend and also goes back to stay with her mum some nights.Re: Adult children
I find myself wondering what other parents do when their kids struggle to survive. My 31 year old son has not been living with me since he went to college but he has always needed help, emotional and financial, now he is about to be homeless, and threatening with coming to live with me. Which it would not be a problem if I live alone, but I am now remarried and my husband totally disagree with that idea, I wouldn’t want it neither, but I do not know how to help now 😕Re: Adult children
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At 31 he should sort his own life out, to be honest. I just managed to prise my 33 year old son out into a flat of his own and have told him in no uncertain terms that while I love him, the help he has had over the last 3 years - free lodging with me as he cleared his debts - is the last help he is getting. He either stands on his own two feet or he doesn't, but whatever mess he makes is his and his alone from now on. He's an adult and should act like one.Re: Adult children
Thank you for saying that Sweetie Pie, that is how I feel, but my husband thinks there is something unhealthy about wanting to help your adult child. But I grew up with family being the most important thing in life, now that I am older I realized that not all people grew up believing this.Re: Adult children
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