Re: condolences
Originally Posted by
Mups
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No, of course it doesn't, I agree. We can show we care in many ways, but that is not the same thing at all.
Doing 'by action and good deeds' as you call it, is showing you think of them are willing to help and no doubt it would be appreciated.
However, paid carers also do that. It is not an emotional thing.
If someone you had known for years was only recently bereaved, and they held their arms out to you in a moment of need, would you honestly duck out the way and walk past them?
There are times when all I need is a hug, and someone dumping a bag of Sainsbury's shopping on the table - although welcome - wouldn't have quite the same effect.
I hug my own family and especially my own children. l squeeze them so tightly, you’d think l’d squeeze the stuffing out of them.
I have had such meaningless hugs off people in the past. With their, mwah mwah pecks on my cheeks or the ones that aim for my lips that l avoid them. They are insincere and they do them because it’s the trend now and that’s what people do these days.
Honestly, isn’t it any wonder why people catch viruses and other things, or get cold sores.
I also said earlier, that l would be wary of hugging anyone at this present time