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08-07-2021, 05:21 PM
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Do you have a problem.

When you feel....notice I said you “ feel” you are being ignored on a forum or in real life?
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08-07-2021, 05:25 PM
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Re: Do you have a problem.

No, it doesn't bother me at all, I just carry on regardless. If a person ignores you without having the guts to tell you why, then they aren't really worth bothering about in the first place.
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08-07-2021, 05:30 PM
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Re: Do you have a problem.

Ignoring a person can be a game to another, I have been ignored in my life, they picked up on my weakness....but what they didn’t realise was...that “ weakness “ eventually became a huge strength.

As in I don’t give two ,s...s who ignores me now... I can also play that game....you’ve been rumbled..
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08-07-2021, 05:49 PM
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Re: Do you have a problem.

Originally Posted by Pixie Knuckles ->
No, it doesn't bother me at all, I just carry on regardless. If a person ignores you without having the guts to tell you why, then they aren't really worth bothering about in the first place.
A very good way to combat those who would attempt to cause you problems I reckon.
Don't ever take on the problems of others, they are their own problems to deal with.
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08-07-2021, 05:51 PM
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Re: Do you have a problem.

How do you know for sure that you are being ignored on a forum?

Not everyone replies, some just like to read a thread.
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08-07-2021, 05:52 PM
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This must happen to everyone at different times in their lives, Pauline. Sometimes I've been concerned if I like the person; other times I've felt like Pixie and I've just let them sulk; and other times I've been grateful!
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08-07-2021, 05:55 PM
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Re: Do you have a problem.

Originally Posted by Morticia ->
How do you know for sure that you are being ignored on a forum?

Not everyone replies, some just like to read a thread.
Morti, did you read my op, I said “ feel”....

I do believe that some do ignore on purpose, not in every case though, it could be all in our heads.

Some people do like to play mind games, you must know that surely?
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08-07-2021, 05:56 PM
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Re: Do you have a problem.

Originally Posted by pauline3 ->
Ignoring a person can be a game to another, I have been ignored in my life, they picked up on my weakness....but what they didn’t realise was...that “ weakness “ eventually became a huge strength.

As in I don’t give two ,s...s who ignores me now... I can also play that game....you’ve been rumbled..
Why do I get the feeling there's a coded message hidden ( not so craftily) in there.
I've missed something haven't I.
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08-07-2021, 05:58 PM
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Re: Do you have a problem.

Originally Posted by UkGameCoder ->
This must happen to everyone at different times in their lives, Pauline. Sometimes I've been concerned if I like the person; other times I've felt like Pixie and I've just let them sulk; and other times I've been grateful!

I was ignored most of my life.. it held me in good stead though,
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08-07-2021, 06:34 PM
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Re: Do you have a problem.

I just think people have two choices and if they want to ignore you, let them.... they are no loss.

Just concentrate on those that are always there for you.
 
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