Re: Grief
Re: Grief
I am so sorry for the loss of your son Claire. Your loss will have a double edge to it because it is the wrong way round - it makes it all the harder to bear because he is the son and you are his mother - and parents are supposed to go first, so this makes it seem so unfair.Re: Grief
And a hug from me.Re: Grief
Never easy Claire. You sound as if you are coping very well and being strong and realistic.Re: Grief
Because Sam had been a deaths door many times before (suicide attempts, accidents) I never feel anger or guilt about him going - just a deep sadness that I couldn`t have had longer with him. I dreaded him surviving me, to be honest, as he couldn`t have coped, but wasn`t prepared for the loss I feel now. It`s as though the ground has been kicked out from under me.Re: Grief
Time is the healer. I lost both my parents a few years between them, then found my brother dead. Losing a son, however, is difficult (so I have been told). We all believe that children should outlive parents and that may be the cause of your continued grief. Talking about it will help you. Just remember all the good times you had and that may help as well.Re: Grief
(((((((((claire)))))))))
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