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Originally Posted by Missy ->
Anyone who is in AA is no better then the person they are sat beside. If I were to judge anyone in a meeting then I'm not being honest to myself. People in AA are not monsters, they are the people you see and meet everyday of your life, ministers, teachers, CEOs, housewife, builders, etc etc. We aren't to be feard, I'd say more to be admired, as we are the ones who have decided to take back control

Do I judge people by the company they keep? I try not to. I think we are all guilty of judging a book by its cover at first look, but I've been proved wrong so many times that I prefer to see how the person comes across to me.
I am a friend of Bill W.....well said Missy
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27-02-2018, 12:39 PM
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When you are the new kid on the block, you can sometimes fall in with the wrong crowd and find that the people you really would choose as friends do not choose you because of that.Simple as that.

what is not so simple is detaching yourself and being viewed differently. How does one change that preconceived notion?
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I feel fortunate that I never felt the need to fit in, and could just be me.
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27-02-2018, 01:15 PM
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Re: Are You Known By The Company You Keep?

Originally Posted by Adanac ->
When you are the new kid on the block, you can sometimes fall in with the wrong crowd and find that the people you really would choose as friends do not choose you because of that.Simple as that.

what is not so simple is detaching yourself and being viewed differently. How does one change that preconceived notion?

I think you just have to be yourself and move on and keep moving on

Whatever kind of person you are, under the mistakes and cockups, will always come to the fore and its that person who makes and keeps the friends ( or not depending on said nature )
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27-02-2018, 01:44 PM
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Re: Are You Known By The Company You Keep?

Maybe you worry too much about what other people think. There will always be people who will judge you by the company you keep....

But, that is their problem, don't let it be yours.
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27-02-2018, 01:56 PM
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I appear to be. I have lost a couple of “friends” on this forum because they don’t like certain friends on my friends list! How silly can you get?

In reality I doubt it as I am a very friendly person with everyone I meet.
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27-02-2018, 02:03 PM
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Originally Posted by wild blueberry ->
Maybe you worry too much about what other people think.
To clarify...A bit of a misconception here....If you read my post at the beginning of this thread you will see that I was the one who said this to someone, it was not said to me.

I do not worry about what others think, I am quite comfortable in my own skin.

Someone wanted a friendship to continue after I left a group known for behavior which was unacceptable to me. I cannot control other's behavior but I do not have to be guilty by association.
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The Company I keep mostly these days are Family..as for 'Friends' on here,there are less than a handful I keep in touch with very occasionally....Folk wanting to judge Me?...get a grip
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27-02-2018, 02:21 PM
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Re: Are You Known By The Company You Keep?

Originally Posted by Cheshire Cat ->
I appear to be. I have lost a couple of “friends” on this forum because they don’t like certain friends on my friends list! How silly can you get?

In reality I doubt it as I am a very friendly person with everyone I meet.
Not much sillier than that!
Pathetic.
If thats their preferred mindset then youve lost nothing, who wants small minded friends like that?

And if they havent posted on your birthday thread that says it all!
 
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