Re: When to say NO
A long time ago, I had a family member who kept asking me for money, just little amounts for petrol or to pay a bill etc, we later found out she had a heroin problem. She turned out fine though, when her parents found out, she went on the methadone programme, got married and now she has 3 grown up children.Re: When to say NO
My rule has always been that I would never lend money, even if I had any ! lolRe: When to say NO
Re: When to say NO
Me neither .Re: When to say NO
Re: When to say NO
I'm rather pleased with the majority of replies here. Because I am struggling with the thought of saying no to another request for money from a family member, whom I have given and given to repeatedly. It;s not like I have an endless supply of funds and only save by being careful of my weekly pension. When she says can you lend me, she means give me, because she has never offered to repay any of the previous loans. once I do give money to her I am blanked and ignored until she next needs dosh. My battle is between love for her and her taking the wee wee. You have given me the boost I need to say NO. Am I being mean here? I hate to be thinking this way.
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