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12-03-2020, 09:08 PM
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Attn Artful Todger

Hi Todge

It has been bothering me about a comment I said on the thread about the delivery man not helping that disabled lady.
I called you selfish and a hard man and some other stuff and I would like to apologize because I had no right to speak to you like that.

You are who you are, what right do I have to try tell you to be anything other than true to yourself.

We are all different in our views on things and you have a right to your view whether I or anyone else likes it.

If your loved ones love you then thats all that matters, what I think about a comment that you make doesn't matter, but then I know you already know this and from what I have seen of you around the forum my comment wouldn't have phased you in the slightest but I still wanted to apologise.

I hope you will accept apology. It still doesn't mean I like what you said though

Sorry again.
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12-03-2020, 09:41 PM
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Well I have nothing to do with this but let me say this is a very impressive thing you have said here LQ. I have done exactly the same thing myself. Lost my block with people here and given them a mouthful. Then regretted it later. It's hard sometimes when somebody says something or expresses views that rile you. You just can't let it go. But it's a very big thing to apologise. And rare these days. Good on you.
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12-03-2020, 09:57 PM
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Originally Posted by keezoy ->
Well I have nothing to do with this but let me say this is a very impressive thing you have said here LQ. I have done exactly the same thing myself. Lost my block with people here and given them a mouthful. Then regretted it later. It's hard sometimes when somebody says something or expresses views that rile you. You just can't let it go. But it's a very big thing to apologise. And rare these days. Good on you.
Thank you Keezy, it's been on my mind all afternoon and I have felt really bad, he's not a bad sort just different to me and didn't deserve my 'type' lashing. I don't like to hurt peoples feelings, he probably wasn't hurt but just in case I felt the need to say sorry.
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13-03-2020, 02:01 AM
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Originally Posted by keezoy ->
Well I have nothing to do with this but let me say this is a very impressive thing you have said here LQ. I have done exactly the same thing myself. Lost my block with people here and given them a mouthful. Then regretted it later. It's hard sometimes when somebody says something or expresses views that rile you. You just can't let it go. But it's a very big thing to apologise. And rare these days. Good on you.
Well said Keezoy .
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13-03-2020, 02:02 AM
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Originally Posted by Lion Queen ->
Thank you Keezy, it's been on my mind all afternoon and I have felt really bad, he's not a bad sort just different to me and didn't deserve my 'type' lashing. I don't like to hurt peoples feelings, he probably wasn't hurt but just in case I felt the need to say sorry.
It was a magnificent apology Lion Queen.
Well done you
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13-03-2020, 09:03 AM
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I accept AT just as he is also. I might add that I distinctly remember him saying about himself.."I am a nasty bastard and I make no apology for that"..Now if you're going to be that honest and up front about yourself, you can neither expect people to still like you ( I certainly do not think he does) or complain when they disagree. He doesn't. And I'm trying to be balanced about this. Nobody is at fault. LQ I don't think you did anything wrong but you proved to be a stand up person anyway. I DO NOT expect to be censored here just because I'm talking about a third party. If anybody does that well you can just terminate my membership altogether.
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13-03-2020, 09:08 AM
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Originally Posted by Muddy ->
It was a magnificent apology Lion Queen.
Well done you
Thanks, just hope todgy takes my apology. X
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13-03-2020, 09:10 AM
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Originally Posted by keezoy ->
I accept AT just as he is also. I might add that I distinctly remember him saying about himself.."I am a nasty bastard and I make no apology for that"..Now if you're going to be that honest and up front about yourself, you can neither expect people to still like you ( I certainly do not think he does) or complain when they disagree. He doesn't. And I'm trying to be balanced about this. Nobody is at fault. LQ I don't think you did anything wrong but you proved to be a stand up person anyway. I DO NOT expect to be censored here just because I'm talking about a third party. If anybody does that well you can just terminate my membership altogether.
What's up keezy? Why are you talking about memberships terminated?
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13-03-2020, 09:49 AM
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I don’t understand? Why wasn’t this apology sent in a private message?
I hope The Artful Todger likes all this publicity and the attention drawn to him.
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13-03-2020, 10:12 AM
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Originally Posted by Artangel ->
I don’t understand? Why wasn’t this apology sent in a private message?
Indeed .....

Originally Posted by Artangel ->
I hope The Artful Todger likes all this publicity and the attention drawn to him.
I'm sure that he will .....
 
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