Re: Are You An Interfering Grandparent Or Relative?
I'm not an interfering Grandmother (or Mother for that matter). I had enough outside interference when my sons were growing up to last a lifetime and I vowed that I would never do that. If asked for advice I respond but for the remainder of the time I keep quiet and have sometimes had to bite my tongue very hard in doing so!Re: Are You An Interfering Grandparent Or Relative?
I learnt 13 years ago that I had to button my lip. My daughter talks to me as though I never had children and I know nothing and things are different today , so I was and am shut out other than seeing my beautiful grandchildren maybe once a month or more if I'm on a lucky day . Even when daughter was struggling to breast feed , baby was hungry and constantly crying for milk I begged my daughter to give some bottle milk, half and half , no, she said , the midwife told me to persevere , eventually after weeks of no sleep , screaming baby , I arrived with ready made new baby milk and a sterilised bottle , baby suckled it all and slept for 4 hours , but then what do I know after all I only had two children !Re: Are You An Interfering Grandparent Or Relative?
Re: Are You An Interfering Grandparent Or Relative?
Sadly I don't have any grandchildren.Re: Are You An Interfering Grandparent Or Relative?
Of course you do LQ it's must be so painful for you .
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