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16-04-2016, 12:06 AM
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Originally Posted by Meg ->
Hi Susan, what can I say, I have a feeling of déjà vu reading your post, it is an echo of Jim's

I don't know how I would cope in your situation, you are one courageous lady.
I hope you are able to get some pleasure from being with your family in the USA, never give up hope or lose that spirit...
Big hugs x(hugs)x
You are absolutely right Meg, and part of the reason I am going is because I want to be where Jim was when he died. Although his body was taken back to Scotland, as will mine, I think that it is a strong possibility the spirit doesn't return with the body and that his spirit is still in Texas, so I want mine to be too - so we can be together again.

I love Scotland, and Scotland has been my life - which is precisely why I am moving away now, because I don't want to die where I lived. That probably doesn't make sense to a lot of people, but it does to me and it did to Jim.
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16-04-2016, 12:17 AM
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Thank you everyone for your replies, they mean so much to me. I just wish that I could have the chance to meet up with you all in person before I go, but if I don't get on that plane tomorrow I never will - and I need to do that.

You will all remain in my thoughts until my final days, and I consider you all to be friends.

God bless.
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16-04-2016, 12:29 AM
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I've not been around much of late as I've been busy with other stuff.
But I am so glad I logged in today and saw your post.
I have tears in my eyes, and I want to give you a big huge hug, while kicking cancer's butt in the behind.

I hope you have many, many great days ahead to do all you want to, and to make more memories with your family.
Enjoy that time.
Have a safe journey. x
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16-04-2016, 12:41 AM
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What a very brave and courageous lady you are Susan, you are truly to be admired. Have a safe journey to Texas and enjoy every minute of every day.
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16-04-2016, 12:49 AM
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Re: Hello, goodbye (update@post 68)

Originally Posted by ScottishCatLady ->
You are absolutely right Meg, and part of the reason I am going is because I want to be where Jim was when he died. Although his body was taken back to Scotland, as will mine, I think that it is a strong possibility the spirit doesn't return with the body and that his spirit is still in Texas, so I want mine to be too - so we can be together again.

I love Scotland, and Scotland has been my life - which is precisely why I am moving away now, because I don't want to die where I lived. That probably doesn't make sense to a lot of people, but it does to me and it did to Jim.
It makes sense. One chapter of a life. A new chapter of life .. a new journey. As does wanting to be together with Jim.

Susan .. I do so hope you log on once you're settled.
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16-04-2016, 01:02 AM
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Dear Susan, l was just going to bed when l saw your thread. Although, l don't know you ever so well as l am fairly new to the site, l couldn't let you fly off tomorrow without wishing you well on your new adventure.
Texas sounds so exciting and l am sure it will help lift you, especially if it reunites you with the 'energy', your husband Jim has left behind. For you to make this sudden decision, it's as if he is calling you to be with him in spirit.
I'm sure this very special 'journey' will give you peace and the strength to strive on above everything else.
I will be thinking of you... xx
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16-04-2016, 01:48 AM
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Ive just logged on here Susan and read your pm to me and now have just read your post too....
Im just devastated for you !!! You are so brave and I really wish you all the very best in your journey to Texas, I wish your diagnosis couldve been so very different.
As many here will know Im also going through cancer treatment too so I know how you feel about not wanting the chemo.
May you enjoy the rest of your life to the full...Im so pleased I was able to reply to your thread .
Take good care and sending you big (((((hugs)))))
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16-04-2016, 05:34 AM
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Hi Susan

Have a safe trip and enjoy your time with family.

xxxx
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16-04-2016, 05:35 AM
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So sorry to hear this, at least you have got the right attitude towards it. Brave lady !
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16-04-2016, 06:29 AM
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Hello Susan
You are doing the right thing by going to Texas, wishing you a smooth and comfortable journey
Wishing you peace in your heart Xx
 
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