20-08-2019, 03:44 AM
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Re: Personality not looks
Originally Posted by Julie1962
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Surely it has to be a bit of both to begin with ? If I hadn't felt physically attracted to my husband and wanted to be with him I doubt I'd want to be married to him. Physical attraction is important in a marriage. That doesn't mean you have to be a beauty as people are attractive for all sorts of reasons. My husband always says he fell into my eyes they were so beautiful to him and I know his beautiful blue eyes certainly attracted me and he smelled wonderful. We aren't classically beautiful but we have our moments.
Me and Mrs. Floyd just sort of 'ended up together' after a few fleeting glimpses.
I used to go to quizzes with a mate whose wife was in a ladies darts team with my future wife. We hit it off gradually but I guess we must have been attracted to one another in some ways. I have asked her since and she said "I liked your bum".
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20-08-2019, 08:37 AM
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Re: Personality not looks
Originally Posted by Psmith
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I find intelligence and a sense of humour very attractive.Always have done ,even when a young Jack the Lad.Girls who could only talk about pop and fashion, regardless of their looks, were not for me.
20-08-2019, 09:05 AM
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Re: Personality not looks
Initially I was attracted to my husband's looks, I then had 5he pleasure of finding out what a bright, funny, caring young man he was. Nobody wants to be with anyone with an ugly personality I wouldn't think.I know a young man at work in his 20s who is very good looking indeed and he has the personality to match, he is kind, respectful and a downright lovely young man, I also know some people who are not so good looking with ugly personalities.
Anyway what one sees as good looking might not be to the next person.
Someone said on here there is someone out there for all of us , I believe that to be true too, we are all individuals who like and see different things.
20-08-2019, 09:11 AM
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Re: Personality not looks
One thing I appreciate about my husband is he doesn't look upon me as the little woman who requires cosseting, which I would hate. He never treated our daughters like little princesses, and no different to the way he would treat a lad. I must admit though that he has never known his own strength which is considerable, our youngest daughter would frequently scream, 'CHILDLINE' when they were arm wrestling.
20-08-2019, 09:29 AM
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Re: Personality not looks
Originally Posted by Muddy
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Tara what century are you living in ?Most husbands DONT treat their wives as the ‘little woman’ who needs cosseting .
I don’t know one single one !
20-08-2019, 10:16 AM
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Re: Personality not looks
Originally Posted by carol
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Some women would love to be cosseted I'm sure.
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