13-12-2020, 11:11 AM
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Re: Negativity Or Positivity?
Originally Posted by Artangel
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I hate to say it but some of these posts show a lot of negativity.Too much publicity is given to the ‘no mark bullies’ when hardly any positive posts are given to the ‘goodies’ on a forum.
Ignore the bullies and stop giving them any thoughts or airtime... they ain’t wurf it!
I hope you aren’t referring to me,miss know it all....😂🤣😅
I have also noticed that when there is a spat on here, if you scroll down to the bottom of the page, you can see who is viewing, when there is a spat,the numbers increase at the bottom of the page, I guess we like to watch some people argue,not everyone of course.
Only joking Art, good job you know my sense of humour,😂🤣😅😛😜
13-12-2020, 11:45 AM
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Re: Negativity Or Positivity?
Originally Posted by pauline3
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I hope you aren’t referring to me,miss know it all....😂🤣😅I have also noticed that when there is a spat on here, if you scroll down to the bottom of the page, you can see who is viewing, when there is a spat,the numbers increase at the bottom of the page, I guess we like to watch some people argue,not everyone of course.
Only joking Art, good job you know my sense of humour,😂🤣😅😛😜
We must keep positive and upbeat!
13-12-2020, 12:24 PM
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Re: Negativity Or Positivity?
Seriously, not sure what the last few posts were about. I don't see standing up to a bully or defending oneself as "negative". Whether it's in a forum or anywhere else. It's about reality. Handling bullying behaviour is not always "meeting immaturity with immaturity" And,I see plenty of good will here. I don't think positive things or people are neglected at all. . .Anyway that's just my position.13-12-2020, 12:37 PM
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Re: Negativity Or Positivity?
Originally Posted by keezoy
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Seriously, not sure what the last few posts were about. I don't see standing up to a bully or defending oneself as "negative". Whether it's in a forum or anywhere else. It's about reality. Handling bullying behaviour is not always "meeting immaturity with immaturity" And,I see plenty of good will here. I don't think positive things or people are neglected at all. . .Anyway that's just my position.
We all see things differently keezoy, that was a lesson I learnt we don’t see things the same way, one doesn’t have to be a master of words to get their point across.
For me,walking away from a bully is far more satisfying, unless it was persistent,then I leave them to admin,no good making a situation worse.
..which “hands up “ I have done.
As for the real world,again I walk away,unless they kept persisting or threatened my life.
Walking away from a bully is a mature thing to do, walking away is also a strength not a weakness, imo.
Don’t feed the bully!
14-12-2020, 06:04 AM
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Re: Negativity Or Positivity?
Originally Posted by Ripple
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I’ve always looked on the bright side .After all the worst may never happen .
This year has been terrible challenge especially for me .
Through it all I’ve done my best to remain positive.
14-12-2020, 10:34 AM
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Re: Negativity Or Positivity?
Originally Posted by Muddy
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I’m a miserable so and so ...Cant help it .
(Sorry couldn't resist it.) I have to say that your total devotion and adoration of animals and your beautiful art make many of us feel far from miserable. Don't change..
14-12-2020, 11:23 AM
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Re: Negativity Or Positivity?
Originally Posted by keezoy
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Yeah but you're our miserable so and so Muddy. (Sorry couldn't resist it.) I have to say that your total devotion and adoration of animals and your beautiful art make many of us feel far from miserable. Don't change..
What a lovely genuine thing to say,keezoy,
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