Re: Charisma.
Here is a tale of two blokes Azure.....
I worked alongside both of them in't factory. One of them was always finding stuff to complain about, mainly about management and the way the company was run. He would go into great detail how our rights were being ignored. It got to the point where walking past his machine meant at least an half hour ear bend and people would walk the long way round to avoid passing his machine......
He attracted very few friends and was rarely asked to attend 'Lads Night outs'....
The other chap was always cracking jokes, laughing and singing while working at his machine, he was also a very good listener, always finding solutions to even the worst situations. He was always the first person to be invited to any gathering and you always felt happy and comfortable in his company, being sad was not an option.
Two very different people attracting two very different responses, but I must admit, they were both
my friends....