19-02-2019, 10:03 AM
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Originally Posted by TessA
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I don't know why we think we should condemn others especially if it doesn't affect us or our lives personally hurts no one.
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19-02-2019, 10:08 AM
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She'd have been just as upset if some other secret had come out, at least he hasn't done anything illegal.He's still the same person.
I think it's important for folks on here to see a different point of view otherwise it's boring and just folk moaning about stuff without considering others.
I don't mind being disagreed with at all.
19-02-2019, 10:11 AM
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Originally Posted by TessA
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I would be quite happy for my husband to dress as a woman if I loved him enough to want him to be happy.Just think,you could even swap handbags!..and think of the fun you would have clothes shopping!.
(Says the woman who sometimes wears bustles and goggles
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19-02-2019, 10:12 AM
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A guy I first met in the army years ago , six four brick wall sized guy and and our paths crossed many times just by coincidence since 1982 ( met him on the falklands ) and he in time was to marry have kids , lived in Germany for a while , divorced , bought a beautiful house in South Africa , remarried and was in the uk taking a job in Holland , I get a call asking me if I’d care to go to Holland short term contract and who of all the people do I meet but yes ... John !!We shared a house together for a few weeks and everything was just ‘normal’ ... a few months later my friend ( johns boss ) calls in a state of panic to say John has informed him he was going for sex change and had to tell him ... I just laughed ..
About a year or so later I’m driving home when a car behind starts flashing it’s lights at me , I ignored it but again it continued when I turned into a side road so I stopped and got out to speak to the driver ... imagine my surprise when I see a huge red headed lady sat in the car laughing ... it was ‘joanna’ .... I couldn’t help but laugh at the sight before me and jumped in to catch up on the obvious many things that had been going on in his world ..
we still keep in touch and too me he is just ‘john’ and always will be
19-02-2019, 10:18 AM
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I am beginning to wonder now, as there are so many different permutations of sexuality that, it isn’t because people are doing it because it’s a fad. I think, something has happened in the last twenty or thirty years that more people are being born differently.People will say, ‘lt did exist years ago but it was kept quiet’. Maybe so, but l don’t think there were as many different types of sexuality as there are now.
19-02-2019, 10:37 AM
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Originally Posted by Artangel
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I am beginning to wonder now, as there are so many different permutations of sexuality that, it isn’t because people are doing it because it’s a fad. I think, something has happened in the last twenty or thirty years that more people are being born differently.People will say, ‘lt did exist years ago but it was kept quiet’. Maybe so, but l don’t think there were as many different types of sexuality as there are now.
It would never be admitted to as a cause , even if it was.. but the last 50 yrs things seen huge changes in sexuality, and if things are the same as they always were, then there must have been an awful lot of unhappy people , previously.
19-02-2019, 10:53 AM
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Originally Posted by Puddle Duck
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Quite often thought on the same lines Artangel. I have wondered if it has anything to do with the contraceptive pill. We were told to lay of for three months before getting pregnant, I assume for the hormones to re-adjust, but many got pregnant straight away. It would never be admitted to as a cause , even if it was.. but the last 50 yrs things seen huge changes in sexuality, and if things are the same as they always were, then there must have been an awful lot of unhappy people , previously.
Also I think some think that being trans is because folk are gay, they're often not.
19-02-2019, 10:57 AM
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I just wish that men who become women would take some advice on how to dress and how to do their makeup. Unfortunately they sometimes end up looking like a clown rather than a woman although I'm sure they think they look great. I wonder if there is any advice given on this sort of thing when they are going through the process?|
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