Re: Stuck in hospital
Hi, Ffosse, since the first of the year, I've spent eight weeks in the hospital with my daughter. What we did:
The first thing we did was find out how far we could go - gardens, floors, etc. We asked about neat places that most patients might miss. Sure enough, we found Lifeflight on the top floor and talked to the pilots, the best fish tanks in the hospital, and various art. We even found where we could go listen to grand rounds lectures (teaching hospital).
We asked when pet therapy was and made sure we were visited by the dogs and cats when they made their rounds.
We put a walking app on the phone and walked every day, walking a little further each time.
I asked for physical therapy for my daughter. They gauged her fitness level and came up with activities that would help her maintain and build her fitness during treatment. It was excellent! The recumbent bike and elliptical machines were really good for her because they are stable, help build stamina, and get the happy neurotransmitters moving.
While walking, we found sunny spots. Those became our treat locations. Every morning after doctors' rounds and after the most painful treatments, we would buy a cup of chai, coffee, lemon cake or some other treat and go there for a morning break.
I bought a yoga mat and some dial up weights - the ones that can be separated from three pounds up to 25. I looked on Youtube and found workouts - abs, arms, legs, yoga, stretching etc. and did those every afternoon when things tend to quiet down.
I reorganized my photos on my computer and music library. I set up a playlist for each meal in hopes that it might stimulate my daughter's appetite a little.
I downloaded podcasts - my current favorite a course by Robert Sapulsky on Human Behavior Biology from Stanford. Superb! Ted talks.
I wrote kudos letters about the nurses, housekeepers, reception staff and sent them to their superiors.
We researched obscure movies and concerts. Every night we would pop popcorn (I bet nursing has a microwave around there somewhere) and watch one or the other that we especially set aside for the evening.
There are usually a mix of clerics on staff (Catholic, Methodist, Islamic, Buddhist, no C of E here though) to come visit to pick their brains and otherwise generally converse. My favorite was a two hour conversation/debate on the philosophy of human migration. Phenomenal.
We wrote names of literally everyone we met and I wrote letters of appreciation to their supervisors.
We explored the menus of every restaurant and grocery store that would deliver, and we would make a habit of ordering out on Friday night.
I have a subscription that gives me access to medical journals so I could learn all the terminology and the latest studies on anything related to my daughter's disease. Better done in the morning than at night.
I read up on and tried (but largely failed) meditation. Many of the patients who were in long term recommend it.
I did some research and ordered a ukulele. I started learning how to tune it and do some rudimentary playing. ("It's a good thing that rooms have doors," said the other patients.
It's tough, I know. I hope this helps.