Re: Bernie Ecclestone expectant dad
My grandfather on my mothers side was a similar case, I never knew him although I was very close to my grandmother, one day when I was probably around 10 or 11 I remember asking my mother about him, what happened to him? My gran at this stage was in her early 60s and my mother was in her 30's, she told me he died when she was 4 years old, and that was it.
Many years later, I was chatting to a friends elderly mother, naturally as they do, she asked if I was a local lad, I told her I was, she then asked me my mothers maiden name, she might know her, I told her it was Harrison and she asked if she had 3 brothers, I replied that she did. "ooh, if only you knew, I bet you don't know the story about your gran" she chuckled.
She then went on to tell me how my grandma, a staunch member of the Salvation Army for many years, was in her early days a bit notorious in the area. Apparently, when she was 21, she'd taken up with an older man, not just slightly older, but a lot older, she'd then had 4 kids in pretty short order, 3 lads and a girl, the girl being the youngest! "they were only little when he died, the girl, your mum, wasn't much more than a baby, still he had a good innings" she went on, "ninety one he was when he died, can you imagine, fathering kids in your 80's".
So that was the secret, he must have been about 80 when they married, indeed a shocking thing back then, almost 60 years age gap, that however wasn't the end of it, apparently after he died she took in a lodger and ended up having a 'thing', as the old lady put it with him!
I was shocked at this, but worse was to follow, my uncle on my dads side, having retired decided to trace the family tree, he got back as far as 1800 and something, and made a shocking discovery! Apparently, 3 brothers came from the Rhonda Valley to work in a local coal mine, they found lodgings with a widower local to the mine who had a 15 year old daughter. around 6 or 7 months later the 3 brothers suddenly upped sticks and went back to the valleys, leaving a very pregnant 15 year old behind, it was never determined which of them was the father!
Talk about skeletons in the closet. lol