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I told my ex it was over in the middle of a row. I had been thinking about ending things but I didn't mean for it to explode out of my mouth the way it did.

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When I was very young I went out with a lad who stalked me after I finished with him. I think I was only about 16.
I remember my Dad meeting me from work because this lad would hang about outside my work place. It was really unnerving.

Then blow me, the same happened again many years later. The second one didn't follow me, but would ring me in the middle of the night, then just laugh and put the phone down, things like that. It got so bad, eventually he began threatening suicide if I wouldn't go back to him.
He scared me witless.
I could have done with a bodyguard more than a 'professional dumper!'

It must be my fault, perhaps the way I handle things or what I say, because it began a third time years later.
This last one was in about 2005 roughly. He was quite mild though, he would keep coming round afterwards when I was at work and shoving things (sometimes gifts), through my letterbox, or he would 'bump into me' in town when he knew damn well where I was likely to be, and he would even start crying, it was not good.

I haven't been involved with anyone since, men cause me too much stress!

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Nothing could be more cruel, than being stood up, back in the 50s & 60s. Standing outside the cinema, or dancehall for instance, waiting ages for someone who never showed. Oh the humiliation of it all ! I would have been thrilled to be dumped in a "Professional Way", save all that wasted time!

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You sound like you draw these men to you,Mups,

Like a magnet!


Joking aside,that must have been extremely frightening!.

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I'm sorry, I didn't mean to 'sound like a magnet' at all, Pauline.

I can assure you it was not nice being on your own, and have an unpredictable weirdo watching you.

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No need to dump, just employ a little psychology. For example when in a passionate embrace, preferably intimate, casually murmur "Wow! You're good - but not as good as your sister"

Sorted.

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Wicked man!

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IT was Tongue in cheek,Mups.

Sincere apologies,if it offended you.

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Does he say, "It's not you, it's them..."?

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"That's strange! I only have a brother!" might be worrying