11-06-2019, 11:28 AM
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Re: Professional 'dumper'
Originally Posted by susiejaeger
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Its just a coward way to do things.Just face them and tell them to their face - BYE YOUR DUMPED!
Originally Posted by summer
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Gosh....I think that's just terrible. I would wonder what attracted me to such a loser in the first place...he would deserve a good slap...and he'd get it 
11-06-2019, 12:03 PM
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Re: Professional 'dumper'
It’s easy to finish with someone.Just start an argument, then stomp off and say, ‘l don’t think we are suited anymore’!
Another way is, ‘l don’t think you like me, so it’s best we finish’.
If they protest and say, that they do really like you. You say, ‘It’s in my head that you don’t, so it’s best we finish’.
Easy peasy, lemon squeezy!
11-06-2019, 12:04 PM
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Re: Professional 'dumper'
Originally Posted by TessA
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"That's strange! I only have a brother!" might be worrying 
Even more effective then!
..very good point.
11-06-2019, 12:41 PM
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Re: Professional 'dumper'
Originally Posted by The Artful Todger
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No need to dump, just employ a little psychology. For example when in a passionate embrace, preferably intimate, casually murmur "Wow! You're good - but not as good as your sister"Sorted.
11-06-2019, 12:43 PM
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Re: Professional 'dumper'
Originally Posted by Mups
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When I was very young I went out with a lad who stalked me after I finished with him. I think I was only about 16. I remember my Dad meeting me from work because this lad would hang about outside my work place. It was really unnerving.
Then blow me, the same happened again many years later. The second one didn't follow me, but would ring me in the middle of the night, then just laugh and put the phone down, things like that. It got so bad, eventually he began threatening suicide if I wouldn't go back to him.
He scared me witless.
I could have done with a bodyguard more than a 'professional dumper!'
It must be my fault, perhaps the way I handle things or what I say, because it began a third time years later.
This last one was in about 2005 roughly. He was quite mild though, he would keep coming round afterwards when I was at work and shoving things (sometimes gifts), through my letterbox, or he would 'bump into me' in town when he knew damn well where I was likely to be, and he would even start crying, it was not good.
I haven't been involved with anyone since, men cause me too much stress!
11-06-2019, 01:01 PM
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Re: Professional 'dumper'
From my point of view, I think it could be a useful assistance to many, as there are so many odd balls out there now.Mups is the perfect example, but stalking and obsession happens to adults too . The difficulty is , some of these adults who persist are quite often married. That could be a bigger surprise waiting to happen on the doorstep !!
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