Re: A life changing moment
Originally Posted by
Tiffany
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Having a baby & giving him up for adoption. It was one of the saddest things I have ever done. Changing my life it didn't, though, as once I was back to normal, things went back to normal. You never forget though.
Oh, Tiffany, I just posted at the same time you did. I wouldn't have posted if I had read your post first. Please check your PMs in a few minutes.
My heart is with you and every single birth mother out there. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about my kids' birthmother and that my joy is at the cost of her pain (on so many levels). Not for a moment do I not think that we share those sweet souls.
Every year, we still have adoption day and I tell the kids everything I know about their birth family. I always tell them how much love I have for her for getting them here on the planet. My gratitude and respect is immeasurable.