Re: Genderqueer?
Originally Posted by
swimfeeders
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Hi
Spot on Tabby.
I am a complete straight man.
Nothing wrong with being Bi Sexual, but getting Two Ladies into my bed at the same time as always been a problem for me.
My Daughter is a Lesbian.
Her choice, I love her immensely.
She is not a lesser Person for being someone who prefers kissing other ladies to men.
I will defend her right to do so to the end.
Any one who threatens her will pay the price.
They will not enjoy the experience.
Holly is a kind gentle lady.
She would not hurt a fly.
She deserves better.
Yes, she is a Lesbian, she accepts it, it is no great Shakes, they do not hurt any one.
Unfortunately on here we have fantasists who have never been there or done that.
They want a War.
Fine by me, off they go into the Frontline.
Simple Message, the Computer systems are not ready.
Put up or shut up.
Points taken, SF and you love her as you should.
When I was working in San Fransisco, I had a staff of about twenty people. Several of them were gay, several were not, and several I didn't know either way. It wasn't my business. The only thing that mattered to me was their work ethic and ability to do their jobs. The collegiality that we had, and there was plenty of it, made the work especially enjoyable. I don't think that there was anyone who didn't look forward to coming to work in the morning.
At one point, I hired a very bright young man as an IT specialist. He was well-educated and skilled. As it turns out, he was gay. I only knew that because he made a point of telling me and everyone in the office what I considered to be -irrelevant information - about once a day. That was not the problem. The problem was that he turned it into a crusade, bringing outlandish photos, telling the staff about outrageous parties, and generally daring anyone to say anything about it. Anyone who even so much as winced he bullied, playing the homophobia card. Everyone got tired of it.
The solution? I pulled him into my office and told him that as long as he didn't tell me about his sex life - I wouldn't nauseate him by telling him about mine.
I think the mere thought of such a description nearly scared him to death! It did, at least, scare him into cooperation.
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He apologized, and that was the end of that. We had a great IT program and a happy staff from then on.
As for the menage....