Re: My Bogan Holiday
Some good points in there Bruce. I would add the following or others still on the fence:
Families
For those with kids aged 5-12 I would say cruising will be a Utopia holiday. The kids will quickly find the "kid clubs" and games rooms at the back of the ships and the swimming pools and will meet loads of other kids whom they will make friends with. In a very short space of time you will find that you will see your kids for breakfast, then they will disappear the entire day and you will see them again at evening meal where many will still want to have the specially laid on "kids dinner" rather than eat with parents. The kids are looked after brilliantly by dedicated crew members but equally the kids can do heir own thing too.
This entire arrangement means tired stressed out parents are free to relax all day, lounging in the sun or quietly reading in a bar or library without the constant pestering of their kids saying "daddy I'm bored!". You really will get a thoroughly relaxing holiday to yourself !
Steaks
Bruce mentioned eating in a restaurant where "rare was rare". It is a common mistake and misconception of many cruisers that when they eat in the fabulous but mainstream restaurants (i.e. their free designated evening restaurant) that when they order a steak, it is going to be cooked to perfection as they ordered it, rare, medium, well done etc.
This isn't the case and for good reason. There are often 1500-3000 passengers eating. It is simply impossible to personally cook that many steaks for people without holding up service.
What you must do is look ta the menu and see if there is a special steak option on that particular night. On most cruise lines, the evening menus have a section of "always available" meals in case you don't fancy tonight's main dishes. The "always available" pretty much always includes a basic steak, chicken and some type of fish.
Occasionally the main menu of the evening will offer a special steak.
It is important to distinguish between the two.
When the steak is a special on the normal menu, you must realise that 100s if not over 1000 people will be selecting it. As such you are NOT going to get that steak cooked perfectly for your taste. They will have to have pre-cooked 100s of steaks and will be keeping them warm at varying degrees of cooking, rare, medium etc. But keeping them warm means they are still cooking.
So if you want Medium Rare, you need to order rare. If you want Medium you need to order medium rare. This is the only way you will get what you want.
On the other hand, if there is no steak on the main menu and you instead select the steak from the "always available" menu, then you can order it plainly because you aren't competing with 1000s of other people and your steak WILL be cooked to order. So here, Medium Rare IS Medium Rare.
Bingo
Bingo on cruise ships is a terrible rip-off and most cruisers (esp older women) are clueless as to things like odds and numbers. My advice is to steer well clear of ship's bingo until the very last day when there is usually a jackpot rollover which is typically over £1000.
Worth noting that the Bingo is NOT run by the cruise line. It is run by the casino operators who are independent (often Romanian). They are ruthless in their taking of betting money.
The last time I played the final jackpot day of Bingo (as more of a study than anything else), I counted the number of people sitting around the room. There were some 300-400 people and every person had paid on average at least £10 and many much more than that. The casino takings were therefore in excess of £3000 and probably closer to £5000.
A total of 5 bingo games were played in that session and I totted up the total prize money that was paid out which came to about £1800.
That's an absolutely shocking pay-out compared to the amount of money taken in, and this is why no-one should really play bingo on a cruise ship. The casino (house) keeps most of the money rather than pay it out in prizes. It is a total crooked mugs game.
Also note that these ships casinos sell bingo "books". Very often you can by a single game book (for say £5), a 3-game book (for £10) and a 5 game book (for £15). Money-wise people are duped into thinking that the 5 game book offers more value for money. It means you are marking 5 bingo cards during each game instead of one.
What people don't realise, is that no numbers are duplicated on those 5 cards. They are all unique numbers. So if No 7 is called you might think you would be ticking off that No 7 on say 3 of the 5 cards, but you'd be wrong. It will appear only once. You need to buy multiple SINGLE cards to achieve that and hope that the single cards have many duplicate numbers.
All in all, cruise bingo is a huge huge con. Avoid.
On Board Spending
Originally Posted by Bruce
a 10 day cruise that cost me just under $2000 and I spent slightly under $1000 on booze and excursions (including a trip to the bowels of the ship).
How much you spend aboard is a personal choice and it can easily be greatly minimised. $1000 for a 10 day trip is quite a lot. $100 per day. Newbies tend to have a lack of confidence in ports and so book an excursion for every port which is a really expensive option. Many ship excursions are poor value for money. It is usually extremely cheap and easy to just walk off the ship, take a shuttle bus into town or take an open top bus trip around cities and do your own thing. Never be afraid to do your own thing.
When calling into Naples a year ago, our cruise line was offering excursions to the beautiful town of Sorrento for something like £30-40 per person. Just a transfer bus there and back leaving people to wander at will.
My wife and I just walked off the ship, walked 5-10mins to the nearby Naples railway station and bought 2 return rail tickets to Sorrento for 6 Euros each ! Language was not an issue. The train was essentially a tube train that ran overground rather than underground and along the way we passed Pompeii and saw great views of Vesuvius. Had a full day in Sorrento and hopped back on the train back.
Saved ourselves £60 or so.
Cruise lines prey on fear and people's lack of confidence to charge stupid money for bus rides.
It is also worth picking a cruise line that allows you to bring booze on board. Many don't but some will such as P&O Cruises. You can bring bottles of liquors and wine and champagne on board to drink in your cabin at will throughout the cruise. Typically I only bring a bottle of Champagne and a bottle of the wonderful orange liqueur called Aperol in order to make Aperol Spritzes. I then wait until we hit first port in the Med (say Spain) and buy cans of lager and other stuff there which is crazy cheap as well as nice nibbles to have with them.
We do go to ships bars in the evening for pre and post dinner drinks but through the day, we drink what we have brought on board. Far far cheaper that way.
All in all cruising is a fabulous way to travel and is perfect for families with young kids.