Re: Elderly Parents
Yes it is something hubby and I have been through. Our parents are gone now but it is a very difficult time to deal with. Elderly often slip into depression when they become old and tired of the world .My father especially became clinically depressed. He suffered with numerous physical problems that became to much to bear and he prayed every night that he wouldn't waken in the morning.This was something my mother told me after he died. After my father died my mother gradually went from being very out going to being withdrawn and depressed until she died 8yrs.later. Although she was visited and taken on outings regularly by family members nothing seemed to be enough to fill the gap he had left. It leaves you with a feeling of guilt that you could have done more even though you do what you can but that is a negative feeling which does pass because there really isn't anything else you can do when you have done all you can.Re: Elderly Parents
So sorry to read this, and sadly I am unable to offer any advice having never gone through this. My Dad died suddenly aged 58 (40 years ago)after a massive heart attack, and my Mum died at aged 70 (twenty years ago) after a stroke. My thoughts are with you both......Re: Elderly Parents
Re: Elderly Parents
My dad died when I was 3 and my mother is now 76 and driving me scatty. Im rather ashamed about my intolerence and am practising being patient and calm but im totally horrified that she's got so dippy.. My rock is crumbling and im hoping she cant tell im stressed by it.Re: Elderly Parents
Re: Elderly Parents
Thanks for the replies and some of your thoughts. Nice to know we aren't totally alone in feeling helpless.
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