Re: Elderly Parents
I'm sorry for your situation Martin as you seem to be stuck between the devil and the deep blue sea.It is an ever increasing problem for a lot of families as our society is not adequately geared up with solutions.My own mother had family nearby who took care of her until she started to show behaviour signs of dementia.A family decision was taken to place her in a good local residential home.She was taken good care of there until she had a fall and broke her hip.Although she had a successful operation she didn't fully recover and died in a nursing home a few months later. I hope your wife and her relatives can come to a solution for the sake of your mother-in-law.Re: Elderly Parents
Stevmk2, I'm sorry I was so offhand before. A neighbour of mine was much the same as your MiL, her daughter had a meeting with her mums doctor & the SS assessed her & she got help mornings & evenings. Just lately she has gone to live in a retirement home. Good luck.Re: Elderly Parents
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Re: Elderly Parents
Sad to say Martin, but despite what others say and despite your MIL's resistance, I think the time is very fast approaching where where needs to be in 'sheltered accommodation'. Since your MIL lives so far away, is it possible to find such sheltered accommodation somewhere in the vicinity of your home so that you and your good wife can be on hand for your MIL when she needs your help. Her sadness may be partially related to her feelings of being too remote from her family and her inability to do any of the necessary housework she previously did.Re: Elderly Parents
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