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What Is ‘Gaslighting’?

I keep reading this word current ‘trendy’ word ‘Gaslighting’ but l’m not sure what it means?

Do you know? Have you ever been ?....gaslit?
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02-02-2020, 01:36 PM
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Re: What Is ‘Gaslighting’?

My old Gran had gaslighting back in the 40s. Does that help?
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02-02-2020, 01:37 PM
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Hi

Mind games Art.

Don't worry, you are far too astute to be a victim.
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02-02-2020, 01:51 PM
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Re: What Is ‘Gaslighting’?

Originally Posted by Artangel ->
I keep reading this word current ‘trendy’ word ‘Gaslighting’ but l’m not sure what it means?

Do you know? Have you ever been ?....gaslit?
From Wiki:
"Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which a person or a group covertly sows seeds of doubt in a targeted individual, making them question their own memory, perception, or judgement, often evoking in them cognitive dissonance and other changes such as low self-esteem."
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Re: What Is ‘Gaslighting’?

Originally Posted by Besoeker ->
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"Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which a person or a group covertly sows seeds of doubt in a targeted individual, making them question their own memory, perception, or judgement, often evoking in them cognitive dissonance and other changes such as low self-esteem."
Sounds like remainer strategy to me Besoeker!
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02-02-2020, 02:05 PM
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Re: What Is ‘Gaslighting’?

The term is from the film Gaslight starring Ingrid Bergman. After a whirlwind romance and marriage, her new husband tries to drive her insane by making her doubt about things she says and does. An excellent film. If you haven't seen it, I suggest that you do.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gaslight_(1944_film)
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02-02-2020, 02:44 PM
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It's basically what all our politicians get paid to do.
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02-02-2020, 03:04 PM
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Originally Posted by Besoeker ->
From Wiki:
"Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation in which a person or a group covertly sows seeds of doubt in a targeted individual, making them question their own memory, perception, or judgement, often evoking in them cognitive dissonance and other changes such as low self-esteem."
Blimey, been Gaslighting meself for years.
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02-02-2020, 03:49 PM
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Re: What Is ‘Gaslighting’?

He was the best gaslighter in the World in his day, Leonard Rossiter played the part in the film of the same name in 1979.

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02-02-2020, 03:55 PM
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Re: What Is ‘Gaslighting’?

Originally Posted by Artangel ->
I keep reading this word current ‘trendy’ word ‘Gaslighting’ but l’m not sure what it means?

Do you know? Have you ever been ?....gaslit?


I have never been gaslit..

But I've been "cooking on gas"....today!....
 
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