Could you?. Would you?

Well I never!

I have been reading about this married couple with adult children and apparently think becoming Swingers has saved their marriage.
Source D Express today.

As many couples do they got bored with each other after the initial excitement and tried a Swingers Club
This Club was all very nice and in a respectable area with regular clientele.
They soon got into the 'Swing of Things' and it is now part of their life.
What I want to know is; How can you love your spouse /partner and have sex weekly with a comparative stranger and also be a voyeur as well.

Isn't it just self gratification?

And what happens if you fall in love with one of your sexual partners? ..Or is that a Cardinal Sin and not allowed?
Do the men they get jealous of another man's prowess in the copulation department?....... Ooooh! Mavis!!
And what about the women if a stunningly beautiful young girl is on offer? Do they have hissy fit??

Actually years ago these Parties were called Orgies!!

There is nothing new under the sun, is there?

Re: Could you?. Would you?

Too old and too tired. No longer a Sultan of Swing

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I used to swing.. but got bored....now I'm on the see saw

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I quite liked them back in the day,but often felt slightly embarrassed on the way out, as you didn't always know if you were thanking the right people...
( winks)

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Knowing my luck I'd of gotten the ugly bug in the corner , nah not interested . I do know a couple in their 70s that were swingers though , they don't say much but I think it went on for years

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I have never been interested in being a 'swinger'. I think l would vomit all over the stranger, as it makes me feel quite sick!
Good luck to those that like that sort of thing but it's definitely never been my scene!!

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I couldn't do it. I'm too insecure and anyway if you loved someone why would you want to go with anyone else or hurt your partners feelings by doing it.
When the initial intense sex wears off usually you and your partner know each other so well by then you can laugh, do silly stuff that keeps the intimate part of your love life alive.
If your that bored you want to share something special with another maybe you shouldn't be together anyway.

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I think it's revolting.

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Nope, not for me either.
Never have, never will.

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Some folks are a bit like Dogs, for their Dogged determination, they see a cushion, and just have to Shag it.