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02-02-2019, 04:44 PM
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Re: Visiting my step children

Ohhh feel for you muddy .
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02-02-2019, 05:27 PM
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Re: Visiting my step children

Muddy you just have to console yourself with that fact that you don't have to do this very often and it will all soon be over.

That is what I used to tell myself when we went to visit my stepsons.
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02-02-2019, 06:42 PM
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I am counting the hours Meg
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02-02-2019, 06:52 PM
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Actually Muddy Don"t know why you bother TBH. It is obvious they couldn"t give a toss. Probably just waiting for their inheritance [sad but usually true]
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02-02-2019, 07:03 PM
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I wouldn't (and indeed if Mr M goes first we shall probaby never meet again ) but they are my husbands daughters and he loves them dearly .
It would have been better if they were married or with partners then he could have been a doting granddad and I like children so it could have all have been diluted as it were .
Alas it doesn't look as if they ever will they are now 36 and 41 not in any relationships -yet they are quite attractive girls but hard going .
Conversation is like pulling teeth ( oh god I have dinner to get through yet )
My boys are so different they talk they ask questions they make conversation they are interested in things .
I feel stressed
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02-02-2019, 07:06 PM
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Re: Visiting my step children

Originally Posted by Muddy ->
I wouldn't but they are my husbands daughters and he loves them dearly .
It would have been better if they were married then he could have been a doting granddad and I like children so it could have all have been diluted as it were
Also it doesn't look as if they ever will they are now 36 and 41 not in any relationships -yet they are quite attractive girls but hard going .
Conversation is like pulling teeth ( oh god I have dinner to get through yet )
My boys are so different they talk they ask questions they make conversation they are interested in things .
I feel stressed
Start flicking peas at them (or similar)
You'll soon while away the hours!
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02-02-2019, 07:08 PM
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02-02-2019, 07:41 PM
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However Muddy , they don"t appear to love him dearly. Just pull the plug.
Why does he put you & him through this torture . Am baffled frankly
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02-02-2019, 07:58 PM
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If you hadn't mentioned their ages I would have thought they were teenagers.

It's really quite rude and disrespectful, isn't it?
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02-02-2019, 08:08 PM
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I do think so and in anyone else I would not tolerate it .
 
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