22-03-2019, 03:48 PM
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Do you ever wonder???
Do you ever wonder that if you had made different decisions, or choices in life, that you would be living a different life now?I often wonder that if my family had remained in Windsor, what would I be doing now, who would I have married, and how different my life might be.
Don't get me wrong, I am very happy, but I do wonder.
Do you wonder about the same things?
22-03-2019, 04:34 PM
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Re: Do you ever wonder???
Yes I do. If I'd married my first boyfriend, when he asked me, I'd probably be divorced by now. He has had 2 wives. Not an easy person to live with.If my Daughter could have had kids, we'd not be as close as we are & we do do a lot together. On reflection I'm glad I made the choices I did & married the man I did, we had a Son, still living with me & the already mentioned Daughter. I'd not change a thing.
22-03-2019, 04:43 PM
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Re: Do you ever wonder???
I think of life much like a long and winding road with many twists and turns.As with roads you will come across several forks. Do you fork right or left? Had you taken the left fork instead of the right, would have met your Mr/Mrs Right? Would your kids have had fair or dark or ever red hair? Would you have even had that career that you loved/hated so much?
22-03-2019, 04:51 PM
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Re: Do you ever wonder???
Originally Posted by Tiffany
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Yes I do. If I'd married my first boyfriend, when he asked me, I'd probably be divorced by now. He has had 2 wives. Not an easy person to live with.If my Daughter could have had kids, we'd not be as close as we are & we do do a lot together. On reflection I'm glad I made the choices I did & married the man I did, we had a Son, still living with me & the already mentioned Daughter. I'd not change a thing.
Originally Posted by EZ Rider
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I think of life much like a long and winding road with many twists and turns.As with roads you will come across several forks. Do you fork right or left? Had you taken the left fork instead of the right, would have met your Mr/Mrs Right? Would your kids have had fair or dark or ever red hair? Would you have even had that career that you loved/hated so much?
Originally Posted by basser
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my biggest regret was turning down a job in New Zealand back in the early 80s, how I really do regret that now as seeing what a shit hole Britain has turned into now.
22-03-2019, 05:01 PM
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Re: Do you ever wonder???
Originally Posted by basser
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my biggest regret was turning down a job in New Zealand back in the early 80s, how I really do regret that now as seeing what a shit hole Britain has turned into now.
22-03-2019, 05:04 PM
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Re: Do you ever wonder???
Originally Posted by Julie1962
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Not so much really only thing I ever wonder about is should I have given up working entirely a few years instead of limping on. I might be healthier if I wasn't working but I can't change it so no point thinking about it too much.
Originally Posted by Longdogs
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I think a lot of us would have moved abroad if we had seen what was coming basser. New Zealand would have been a good move.
22-03-2019, 05:28 PM
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Re: Do you ever wonder???
Originally Posted by susan m
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I should have gone into the WRAF at 17 . My life would have been easier I should have accepted the job offered in the bank when I was 38 . I would have had a secure job with a pension
All too late now
I was hoping for no regrets, but, I am sure there may be more.
We must meet this Summer for a cuppa.
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