23-02-2014, 11:24 AM
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16yo girl to live in Turkey with her 21yo lover
Big news on the DM website. A sexually active blonde bimbo has fallen in love with a 21yo barman in Turkey, and the parents are allowing her to stay over there for 7 weeks. They plan on marrying in August, he has to do his year of N/Service, they will live here for a couple of years, then go back to Turkey.Hmm, such optimistic thoughts.
Neither can speak the other's language, depending on Skype translation tools. His family are pleased. Her family are divided: paternal grandparents want nothing to do with the sorry saga and haven't spoken to their son or grand daughter since last year, when these plans were made.
Been reading many of the comments and I personally agree with the majority. IMO, the parents need to wise up and realise the grandparents are the only ones seeing sense here, they need to take a firm grip on their daughter's precocious behaviour (she said she would go out there even without their permission or blessing), and stop her making the biggest mistake of her life.
Sorry, forgot to give a link. On the iPad, not a computer.
Mail online.
23-02-2014, 12:01 PM
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The Turkish young man we knew, said that the holiday workers met and slept with at least 5 girls a month during the season.I feel sorry for the girl, I'm sure her boyfriend will continue to meet and sleep with other girls, if he doesn't get a proper job to take them through the winter.
23-02-2014, 01:05 PM
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Originally Posted by Silver Tabby
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Short cut to a British passport - or am I being cynical ?
23-02-2014, 01:30 PM
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Would you listen to a word your parents said at sixteen, I certainly didn't and wished now that sometimes I had. The tragedy is that the more you say no to an infatuated sixteen year old the more determined they will become, and it's a sad fact of life that sometimes we have to learn our lessons the hard way..... I just hope this young girl doesn't get too badly hurt learning hers...
23-02-2014, 03:12 PM
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they need to take a firm grip on their daughter's precocious behaviour (she said she would go out there even without their permission or blessing), and stop her making the biggest mistake of her life.Jazzi, how are they expected to do that when she said she would go out there with or without their permission? We know it's a stupid decision - her grandparents know it's a stupid decision - but perhaps it's one she's got to make on her own. Still, she's got his name tattooed on her so it's bound to last ... provided she's allowed out of the house on her own to show it off.
23-02-2014, 03:13 PM
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Originally Posted by plantman
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Would you listen to a word your parents said at sixteen, I certainly didn't and wished now that sometimes I had. The tragedy is that the more you say no to an infatuated sixteen year old the more determined they will become, and it's a sad fact of life that sometimes we have to learn our lessons the hard way..... I just hope this young girl doesn't get too badly hurt learning hers...
.I know someone whose 16 year old daughter fell for a Turkish boy she met on holiday and the next thing we knew she became engaged to him
What did her mother do? The sensible woman told her daughter that was fine and during the Easter holiday she would take her to Turkey to meet the family.
They went and nothing more was heard of the boy or the engagement. The girl in question returned to school and her studies to get to University.
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