Re: Trump - The Long Goodbye
I don't whether to be polite and thank you for your rather rude reply, or just answer it and leave out the thank you.
My my, don't you get excited Zaphod.
This has surprised me as I have usually seen you write quite rational posts and it is quite a while since I have seen anything quite so wildly exaggerated.
You seem to
think you understand what I mean, but then you twist it, exaggerate it, get yourself over excited then throw it back at me, and quite aggressively too, may I say.
I don't know if Bidden is a letch or not - do you? I have not said he is an angel at all.
But do you honestly think if he meant any harm, or had sexual intentions, he would touch those people in broad daylight, in public, with the cameras rolling??
I would think it a lot more sinister if he had seduced a woman in a lift, or dragged her into a broom cupboard, or the back of his motor in a lay-by - or anywhere else where he wouldn't be seen, but at a public meeting??
I merely meant it is sad when one human being is afraid to touch another these days, without someone shouting out 'Pervert!' Could you not understand that?
As for me being being as you call it - " determined to hug all and sundry whether they want my attentions foist upon them or not", well there you go again, wildly exaggerating!
You haven't a clue whether I "foist my attentions on the unwanted" or not, silly man.
Perhaps you imagine me lying in wait for poor unsuspecting shoppers or dog walkers, or any other total stranger, then leaping out and grabbing them?
Perhaps you have a very vivid imagination?
As for your suggestion that I ask permission to hug someone, I would say that rather depends on a) who it is, and b) the circumstances at the time.
Fear not, I promise you I do not make a habit of launching myself at unsuspecting strangers.
Lastly, as for your suggestion (again exaggerated) that if I tried hugging in a workplace I'd probably get the sack, well I'm afraid you are wrong again.
I did sometimes do this in my workplace actually, and did not get the sack at all.
You see, you know nothing about me, but I worked in care for elderly people, for quite a number of years, and if I could not hold their hand, or put an arm around someone who was afraid, or upset or lonely, then I'd have been in the wrong job.
And before you try to steam-roller over me again, as it happens I left my workplace after a few years because not one, but two of my very dear favourite 'oldies' died and it upset me a great deal, especially as I had difficulties in my own private life to contend with at the same time.
And far from my employers being concerned about my behaviour, they gladly took me back a little later, as I got on well with staff, and residents, and management, and there I stayed until my retirement.
If, as you say, YOU had been my employer and would be 'very concerned about my behaviour', I would suggest that if you had so little compassion in you, then it would have been YOU in the wrong job, rather than me.
I will not carry this silly discussion on with you any more, as I have said all I have to say, and I wouldn't want your imagination to run even more riot, incase you don't sleep tonight.
(Apologies to others for this excessively long post).