19-01-2020, 05:17 PM
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Re: When people don’t talk
I don't know many people like it but I only stand them for a short while. I have known people at work who are incapable of saying good morning, let alone holding a conversation. My answer to this to ignore them completely until such times they feel it necessary to speak.
19-01-2020, 05:22 PM
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Originally Posted by Longdogs
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I don't know many people like it but I only stand them for a short while. I have known people at work who are incapable of saying good morning, let alone holding a conversation. My answer to this to ignore them completely until such times they feel it necessary to speak.
Bit more difficult when it is not work though Dongle.
These women are staying in Muddy's house so it can't be pleasant, and she shouldn't have to feell she has to go out of her own home to avoid the atmosphere there.
I suppose there is also the problem of not wanting to upset her husband by having it out with them, too.
The only other thing I can think of Muddy is, could your husband not have a quiet word with them, or perhaps he doesn't see there is a problem? It might be better coming from their Dad than yourself?
19-01-2020, 05:37 PM
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Originally Posted by Mups
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Bit more difficult when it is not work though Dongle.These women are staying in Muddy's house so it can't be pleasant, and she shouldn't have to feell she has to go out of her own home to avoid the atmosphere there.
I suppose there is also the problem of not wanting to upset her husband by having it out with them, too.
The only other thing I can think of Muddy is, could your husband not have a quiet word with them, or perhaps he doesn't see there is a problem? It might be better coming from their Dad than yourself?
19-01-2020, 05:39 PM
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Re: When people don’t talk
Originally Posted by Tedc
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Hi Muddy!To me, that all suggests that they are holding a grudge.
& ganging up to increase the impact!
Maybe you have to confront them and ask them to fess up?
They have no impact at all in fact I feel really sorry for them their lives seem so boring .
It’s not so much ganging up as they are very close to each other .
My husband worries enough about them .
He doesn’t know why they are not married and never have boyfriends.
19-01-2020, 05:42 PM
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Originally Posted by Mups
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Bit more difficult when it is not work though Dongle.These women are staying in Muddy's house so it can't be pleasant, and she shouldn't have to feell she has to go out of her own home to avoid the atmosphere there.
I suppose there is also the problem of not wanting to upset her husband by having it out with them, too.
The only other thing I can think of Muddy is, could your husband not have a quiet word with them, or perhaps he doesn't see there is a problem? It might be better coming from their Dad than yourself?
Their Dad doesn’t at all .
It was only for a couple of nights anyway .
It’s just that being silent does not come naturally to me
19-01-2020, 05:47 PM
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Muddy, l think l would prefer people who can ‘talk for England’ than those that are what l call, ‘hard work’. It is such a strain and in my case, l end up talking a load of rubbish as there’s no rapport.
Do you know what their interests are or something about the work they do?
Maybe, they have a loyalty to their mother and that’s why they behave like this?
I would avoid them and leave them with their dad as it sounds like a hard nut to crack with those two!
Oh, and as l looked at them, l’d call them swearwords in my head as that would make me laugh!
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