Re: Sharing Grown Children is lopsided
I hope you enjoy your Christmas with your daughter plantman, every moment is precious.Re: Sharing Grown Children is lopsided
We traditionally spent Christmas day with my parents, first year their house after that at ours, Boxing Day we went to In Laws. When my son got married both sets of parents were invited to my son's Christmas Day which went on for 16 yrs, this year's the first I've not spent with them, my choice.Re: Sharing Grown Children is lopsided
I've decided to not let this bother me. It's not worth the stress as to who goes where and either feeling left out or inflicting guilt. My daughter is currently immature as is her boyfriend and I'm staying out of that scenario. Thanks for all your commentsRe: Sharing Grown Children is lopsided
Christmas can be a stressful and depressing time for many people.Re: Sharing Grown Children is lopsided
I am very glad I have no family left apart from my cousin in Jersey who I see rarely. It means I can do what I want at Christmas or at any other time without being pressurised into going here there and everywhere. Surely it must be nice to spend Christmas in your own home with your immediate family rather than trying to please everyone.Re: Sharing Grown Children is lopsided
You should never expect your kids to dance to your tune, especially when they have families of their own, otherwise resentment soon builds up.
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