Re: Almost 50.... dreading it
Re: Almost 50.... dreading it
Re: Almost 50.... dreading it
Oh dear you make me laugh. My mother in law would just hate the idea of a care home, the lady isn't really a person I dislike although we have little in common but what I dread is the fact that she probably has cancer and I have heard many unhappy stories about people looking after folk with cancer.Re: Almost 50.... dreading it
My mother hated the idea of a care home and thought one of her four girls was going to be stupid enough to put her up! Anyway she is in a home now, which costs almost asRe: Almost 50.... dreading it
I am with you every way Willow, I just don't think children should be responsible for us. I have made this clear to my own lot. My husbands mother seems to think that it is the reason she had children. My husband is adopted and he has a foster brother and she makes them feel that they owe her a lot.Re: Almost 50.... dreading it
Well the driver didn't turn up today to take her to day care, and I got no reply from the office. Have been so depressed all day, and really felt like just walking out. I had a sleep from 4-6pm just to try and de=stress but I just dreamed about the situation.Re: Almost 50.... dreading it
Re: Almost 50.... dreading it
Sue I am sorry to hear of you predicament (((hugs))) .Re: Almost 50.... dreading it
I think if there has ever been any dysfunction in the family, then it is not good idea for the children to care for the elderly parents. There is too much at stake.
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