Re: Former ER actor Vanessa Marquez shot and killed by police
So forget her fame and consider her condition.
In the U.S., "mental" healthcare is often not covered by insurance which is one of the reasons we have a severe shortage of neurological healthcare providers and hospitals. Strangely enough, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest seeded a movement to close down state mental hospitals. The idea was that smaller community hospitals and services would take their places so as not to isolate "mental" healthcare patients in big hospitals, which could sometimes lead to abuse or neglect.
These community centers were never built. That left "mental" healthcare patients on the streets or hidden away at home.
That left paramedics, or more often, Law Enforcement officers who have to deal with these patients. And here in the U.S. if you call emergency services or the police, someone
is going to come. Conditioned to a criminal, violent element, who could blame officers for being defensive? The reality is that Law Enforcement deals with millions of encounters daily and there are surprisingly few of these tragic events.
One solution is that most law enforcement agencies have crisis teams. When my daughter had brain inflammation, I went to the police and told them that if we ever had to call them what they would be walking into. I did this after police shot and killed a teen with a similar brain disease when they walked into his North Carolina home and found him about to stab his mother. Someone in the family had called hysterically but did not explain the situation.
Anyway, the officers I spoke with were extraordinarily helpful and appreciative and explained how they would send a crisis team and that would include a medical team, a counselor, and an officer without guns - if I ever got into a bad situation. Her neurologist had warned that she could possibly go into a common state called "cap gras" in which everyone around her would appear to be strangers. In such a state, people can have massive adrenaline rushes making them difficult to manage physically because they are scare out of their wits to suddenly find themselves surrounded by people they think are strangers.
No officer would ever want to shoot an innocent person, especially a sick one. The fact is that every day, law enforcement offers have millions of contacts with the public, and in each one, they don't know whether a person might try to kill someone or them. Split-second decisions have to be made. In 99.9% of the time, they make the right one.
If you have a person who has dementia, Alzheimers, neurological inflammation, brain cancer, seizures, somnambulism, cognitive decline, or impairments, I can't say enough how important it is that you contact law enforcement so they don't walk into a situation that they are pre-progammed to believe is criminal activity (domestic or otherwise).
The other thing is that if people are in conditions like I described, prepare for the worst. Remove every single gun, toy gun, scissors, and knife from reach. I even had to lock up my kitchen prep knives. The last thing I wanted would be a situation like the one that I described.
Never in a million years did I think that the most lovely, intelligent, compassionate, delightfully easy-going girl could be violent or exhibit severely abnormal behavior - but it can happen. In our case it was triggered by strep throat.
We have to take care of people long before a situation like this one happened.