Re: Dealing with a liar.

I know...I also know our friendship has been severed...unless she can admit to her lies , time will tell.

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She won't, so I would move on and find other friends. Liars believe themselves, so in her head she has nothing to admit.

Re: Dealing with a liar.

Yes. I have worked with a couple of persistent liars. The answer is to just question them on everything they say then call them a ******** liar to their face.

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Just sing as you pass her... ‘Liar, Liar, your knickers are on fire’!!

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LD....that’s what I did....but, she just manipulated round what questions I asked her...and got nasty...I believe that was a ploy to shut me up...I’m best out of it...I feel so much better,...I’ll get over the upset in time.

She’s a dangerous person who could and has caused havoc in people’s lives...with her persistent lies.

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Art....we live close, when I see her, I cross the road...this is the second time we have fallen out over her constant lies...it did my head in..

This happened a couple of Sundays ago after lunch..

Re: Dealing with a liar.

I've had a few compulsive liars to deal with over the past. One I dealt with by taking him to one side and having a word in his ear, the others I've blocked.

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Bread....I didn’t realise, how much of a liar she was, not until that Sunday...I tell you what...she had me questioning myself...that’s how powerful of a liar she is.

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That's called gaslighting...messes with your head.

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Yes, I know about gaslighting.....but, I wasn’t ready to see her lies, because she’s a friend..I kept thinking the best.

Well the best, wasn’t helping me...the timing has to be right...I know in my heart, our friendship is finished as I said earlier...

What a shame that compulsive liars, can’t appreciate decent honesty..I really don’t get them.