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21-12-2020, 11:15 AM
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Decisive Or Indecisive

Which one are you?

I’m the second one along, but am getting better at being more decisive,
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21-12-2020, 11:22 AM
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Re: Decisive Or Indecisive

Let you know when I make my mind up.
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21-12-2020, 11:22 AM
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Re: Decisive Or Indecisive

Originally Posted by pauline3 ->
Which one are you?

I’m the second one along, but am getting better at being more decisive,
Not sure, I haven't made my mind up yet!
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21-12-2020, 11:23 AM
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Originally Posted by spitfire ->
Let you know when I make my mind up.
Great minds think alike!
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21-12-2020, 11:30 AM
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Re: Decisive Or Indecisive

I think in some areas I am indecisive, looking back I tried to please everyone, especially regarding work.

I guess my brain doesn’t work as quick, when you are put on the spot.

Being indecisive has cost me as well.
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21-12-2020, 11:31 AM
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Re: Decisive Or Indecisive

Originally Posted by Baz46 ->
Not sure, I haven't made my mind up yet!

You can’t make your mind up, until the question is put forward, and I don’t mean my OP either, you know what I mean,😂🤣😅
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21-12-2020, 11:33 AM
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Apparently being indecisive is a disorder,😩🥺 I never knew that.related to anxiety, stress etc.
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21-12-2020, 11:45 AM
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Re: Decisive Or Indecisive

Originally Posted by pauline3 ->
I think in some areas I am indecisive, looking back I tried to please everyone, especially regarding work.

I guess my brain doesn’t work as quick, when you are put on the spot.

Being indecisive has cost me as well.
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Apparently being indecisive is a disorder,😩🥺 I never knew that, related to anxiety, stress etc.
Neither did I know that, interesting to read about that too. Your previous comment re: people pleasing is also mentioned as a reason, see the fourth paragraph of the article in the link below:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/b...ses-indecision
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21-12-2020, 12:19 PM
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Err, I think, no wait, umm, .?
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21-12-2020, 12:26 PM
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Neither did I know that, interesting to read about that too. Your previous comment re: people pleasing is also mentioned as a reason, see the fourth paragraph of the article in the link below:

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/b...ses-indecision
Thanks Baz, I will have a good read of that,
 
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