Re: Elderly Parent
Re: Elderly Parent
I was going to suggest an SOS alarm system as UJ suggested, we got one for Mum from Saga, she was inclined to be forgetful, and I worried that she wouldn't remember to press the alarm if needed.Re: Elderly Parent
Thank you Uncle JoeWe actually put Care Link on line as soon as mother moved into Cumbria, we found two good neighbours to hold keys and everyone has everyone's telephone number, but when MIL did have a fall the button she should have around her neck was in fact lying happily by her bed. Now she probably forgets she even has this contact. Usually she contacts them regularly to make sure everything is as it should be but she doesn't remember much now at all.Re: Elderly Parent
Yes Pats Her GP and the hospital are great they have involved me so far they mention data protection but they know that a lady of 85 needs support from someone who is fully aware of the facts, also mum forgets so at the doctor's sometimes I prompt her so that the doctor hears about all her symptoms.Re: Elderly Parent
I am sorry to hear about all the ill parents and in laws.Re: Elderly Parent
Hi BowieyesI think the most difficult thing for my husband is that he has known his mother as a very strong domineering woman who was in charge of everything. She ran her own shop in Manchester and adopted him and fostered another boy, her husband died about 30 years ago so she has been on her own and happy to be so. She has over the years been a solid support for us and it is very difficult to see this strong woman turn into a frail sick old lady. It also makes me aware of what my future might be.Re: Elderly Parent
Re: Elderly Parent
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