Re: Attention seeking people
Originally Posted by Aysa
I walk away and ignore SP...these kind of people irritate the hell out of me. I dont give them houseroom in my life.
There are "fountains and drains" in life and I like to fill mine with "fountains"
Oh how brilliantly put. I choose fountains also.
Originally Posted by Sweetie pie
Very wise words Aysa.
Why do they do it?
I cannot fathom it out.
I think trying to figure out “‘why’ people do what they do” is enough to drive anyone nuts. We don’t always have to analyze people and wonder why they do things. That’s enough to drive anyone nuts. I think people in general do things the way they do because it works for them. If it didn’t work for them then they would stop doing it.
The best thing to do, in my opinion; (not that I’m any better at dealing with it) is to either accept them as is , or ignore them.
We can’t go around changing people to suite our own needs and wants nor can we throw them in a room and lock the door.
Besides which I think we are all attention seekers to a certain extent or we wouldn’t be here on a community site talking to others. It’s not an insult. Just a logical fact to consider.