Re: confrontation
Originally Posted by
Lion Queen
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well yes, I'm talking about you Pauline
only joking. No just someone I know but I chose not to know her anymore. I can't let anyone make me feel poorly, it's ridiculous how horrible my body feels so I've had to walk away for my own well being.
I was reading in a magazine that on many occasions relationships break down, couples and people move on and it's just the same with friendships or so called friendships, sometimes they break down. Friendships are supposed to lift you aren't they.
If it makes you feel ill, I suggest like you say ,walk away,...its not good for your health....
I’m glad you recognised how it made your body feel,....it took me much longer to walk away, I don’t really know why, but I have a friend who has helped me in that area, they have supported me a lot and talked me through it, I have lived alone for 30 yrs ,so have no one to talk to in certain situations, like a husband or for some others they have a partner.
Like you LQ, my peace is very important to me....
For some living in a toxic environment can be an addiction, especially if that’s all you have known in your life...once again it’s recognising it and breaking that pattern....it can cost you your health, ,