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Being in the mood for a night of passion, it is noticeable that such events are getting less and more difficult to arrange, free.
Now if the future is going to mean less nights of passion and perhaps in the future none. What is the point?
Wife? He doesn't say who or what he wants a night with. You are making assumptions and he could accuse you of being homophobic. He could be talking about a night of passion with his boyfriend. He is a sailor after all. Sorry if that sounds a bit nauticalist.