Re: Apologies
I don't think it is acceptable to say "sorry YOU misunderstood ....." Far preferable I think to apologise unreservedly and say something like "I am so sorry I have upset you....." and take responsibility for the situation. If the person who caused the upset or offense becomes upset or moved by the distress and reaction of the person they have upset then I think it can be taken that the apology will be genuine.Re: Apologies
My thoughts became very confused when reading your question ... you could argue that the 'harmed' deliberately misunderstood the 'harmer' with the intention of wrong footing them ...Re: Apologies
Re: Apologies
Re: Apologies
I've had to apologise many times in my lifetime and no doubt will have to do so again, but I would never apologise unless I meant it, what's the point of saying your sorry if you don't mean it?, better to say nothing then give a halfhearted apology. I'm always making blunders and if I unintentionally offend anyone then I am truly sorry and I'm the first to offer an apologly, putting all the blame on myself, that is part of a genuine apology if you were in the wrong in the first place.
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