Re: Chatted up.
We can also” react” in certain situations, instead of acting in that situation...it’s learning to “ act” instead of “ react”....
We need to think in certain situations, be smart read or listen to what is being said...then act.....example some put out bait or goad you...be one step ahead don’t “ react”...it’s a trap.....recognise the wording or how it’s said.
I was one said person so know through experience.....sometimes we aren’t even aware of our reactions or how we can bait/ goad other people.....
In many situations I have found myself “ reacting “ instead of acting....we’re all learning though...some are quicker than others.😀😃
Each individual learns in their own way....there is no timeline on learning in areas....we never stop learning.