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16-07-2021, 11:38 AM
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It happened as I explained...if you doubt that, then that’s just your opinion.

I think I would have tripped up by now, if it was a made up story, this was real and that’s how it happened.
I don't doubt that that's the way you saw things, and don't doubt that the driver was most likely out of line, Pauline.
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16-07-2021, 11:41 AM
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Originally Posted by pauline3 ->
.I’m not sure if it’s policy, but one driver talks to me the minute I get on until the minute I get off,

You get to know the regular drivers after a while.
And they get to know the troublesome passengers

Hold friends close, and enemies closer
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16-07-2021, 11:43 AM
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I should have kept my mouth shut regarding my son,
Why so? If he is controlled enough to deal with the matter in a civilised way, then let him handle it for you. The reason why my Mum would have said nothing to us would have been for fear of us getting into trouble by losing our tempers!
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16-07-2021, 11:49 AM
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Hence the reason why I used conditional statements rather than assertions.
You offered advice without knowing if it was the appropriate advice. That was very irresponsible, and could very well cause even more upset. Will you be there to pick up the pieces if, by following your ill considered advice, pauline gets herself into even more emotional turmoil? I doubt it. I think your attempt to manipulate a distressed woman in this way is disgraceful. Shame on you.
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16-07-2021, 11:50 AM
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Originally Posted by UkGameCoder ->
Why so? If he is controlled enough to deal with the matter in a civilised way, then let him handle it for you. The reason why my Mum would have said nothing to us would have been for fear of us getting into trouble by losing our tempers!

That is so strange you say that UG C...my son is the adult in our relationship and I’m the child.

Not making any excuses for my behaviour, I have trigger points, that guy pressed that trigger point and he got it with both barrels.

I’m learning and growing, made a mistake, which doesn’t happen quite as often as it used to.

It’s a defence and protection mechanism that I have always used, once I got to a certain age.

I don’t need it though...I’m talking about my clap trap....but am slowly letting it go...when it’s been a big part of your life reacting, ..it’s hard to change that pattern of thought.

But I am definitely much better than I used to be,

By the way I can assure you I am in no “ emotional turmoil”....
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16-07-2021, 11:55 AM
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Re: Bus Depot.

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Not making any excuses for my behaviour, I have trigger points, that guy pressed that trigger point and he got it with both barrels.
How many more barrels do you need to let him have before you consider justice to have been done?
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16-07-2021, 11:58 AM
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U G C....certain personalities in men, I react to.
Especially rude, dominating and bitter men.
You I don’t react to, because you seem to be a real gentleman and I mean that...you have empathy.

You seem very tuned in to woman..imo.
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16-07-2021, 12:01 PM
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because you seem to be a real gentleman and I mean that...you have empathy.
He could be faking it pauline

Just kidding Ukgc

As an aside, is there a nickname we can use for you Ukgc since Ukgc seems a bit awkward?
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16-07-2021, 12:02 PM
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How about uke?
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16-07-2021, 12:03 PM
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He could be faking it pauline

Just kidding Ukgc

As an aside, is there a nickname we can use for you Ukgc since Ukgc seems a bit awkward?

He’s a lovely very empathetic man, I know you are teasing..
 
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