Am I Unreasonable ?
I get so annoyed,My next door neighbour often uses my bins for her rubbish. Now I dont mind her using them ,but she never puts them out [ they are kept at the side of my house facing hers ] ,or brings them in from the street ,where we have to leave them on collection day. She never tells me she uses them, I just find her rubbish [ sometimes wrong] in my bins, after Ive put the bins out, and she will walk straight past them on collection day, after she's been out and never bring them in. I have mentioned before to her about using them ,she just apologises ,says her cleaner has used them.
I know she is in her late 80s, but I am also nearly 80 ,and I know others older who have to do things for themselves, she complains about her heath, [ she has had 2 knee repairs] and says she cant do things, but I also have health/ mobility conditions,and I feel she should take turns at putting them out/ bringing them in.Am I unreasonable ?