24-06-2021, 10:08 PM
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Re: Dealing with a liar.
Originally Posted by Longdogs
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I always wonder just how much effort it must take to continually lie about things unimportant and to keep it up.
I know...but, what she lied about was very important..
She’s bed bound most of the time with an illness, she’s only 61.
24-06-2021, 10:11 PM
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Re: Dealing with a liar.
Originally Posted by Longdogs
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I always wonder just how much effort it must take to continually lie about things unimportant and to keep it up.
24-06-2021, 10:13 PM
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Re: Dealing with a liar.
Originally Posted by Longdogs
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I always wonder just how much effort it must take to continually lie about things unimportant and to keep it up.
24-06-2021, 10:13 PM
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Re: Dealing with a liar.
Originally Posted by pauline3
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This world is very fast paced..many mouths are also.
25-06-2021, 07:09 AM
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Re: Dealing with a liar.
Originally Posted by Artangel
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Pauline, lf she is bed-bound, is she/was she one of your clients that you care for, or just your friend?
Everything is explained throughout this thread..any more questions please ask...happened on a Sunday after lunch.
25-06-2021, 08:03 AM
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Re: Dealing with a liar.
Originally Posted by pauline3
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Art, please read my OP, she has a debilitating illness, a bit like the M E...I suffered with for 3 yrs, also bed bound for most of those years.Everything is explained throughout this thread..any more questions please ask...happened on a Sunday after lunch.
25-06-2021, 08:18 AM
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Re: Dealing with a liar.
Originally Posted by Artangel
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Pauline, l am surprised you weren’t a career for this bed bound friend. You have told us many times about the people you care for because you say, you love doing it.
Art,in a way I was, but I don’t really want to bore you ,with all that I did for her, I did it out of love.
She actually wanted me to be her carer, as she’s on disability allowance..I very nearly committed, but couldn’t at that time , I was working elsewhere,cleaning.
It actually came up quite a few times, being her carer..
I can now see, why it never happened, I see things much more differently than a lot of members on here.
She would have done my head in, this was the second time we had fallen out...each time she told me to leave,...I did send her a message on messenger, which she never read, plus she has blocked me.
I guess the “ truth” really hurt..I’m in touch with her other friend...but she doesn’t want to talk about her lies either.
Not that I asked her to...the lying is between her and me, best not to get others involved. I just messaged her saying sorry that she was involved with our argument.
So in a nutshell..she has “ swept it under the carpet”..unable to deal with it.
She has a long history of lying...she believes her own lies and is in her own reality...
We knew each other through church..nearly 30 yrs ago...then we met again in the same church around 17 months ago.
I was too weak to confront over things she said to me in my 30s....but found the strength to come out with it all on that Sunday, as well as other stuff that she had been feeding me over those months.
My mind is extremely strong now..i won’t be in a situation where she twists,turns, manipulates everything around...she couldn’t deal with the questioning from me..I see that now.
She’s in her own bubble..felt threatened I was about to burst it, by speaking out the truth....my light bulb moment came.
When she said in front of her friend......” I never said that”....well,I know she did...not just the once either...as I told her friend..we have conflicting spirits.
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